What Actually Rebuilds Confidence When You've Lost Your Edge

I'm really excited to record this today and talk to you. I've been I've just been like watching you on social media and seeing you grow. And obviously, I worked with you for so long and I admire and I'm so inspired by everything you do and I'm like, First of all, I just want to connect with you and see what's going on in your brain to be able to grow at the speed. And kind of what you see forward. Tell me all the details, all the secrets. But I guess like the question to really start out with is what does it take to be confident? I think when it comes to being confident, the thing that I have learned, and for me, I tried this whole like self-love route for so long, and it didn't click, and I feel like it doesn't click for so many who have a really deep struggle with it.

So I think for me, what I finally learned that it takes to be confident is it's being on your own team, it's having a level of self-respect for yourself, which I think you can start to act with respect before you feel like you respect yourself, but I think it's really, just being on your own team, having yourself as your own best friend, I think it's believing that you can do what you say you do, keeping your word to yourself, and just generally having a very strong relationship with yourself. That's what it really means to me. Yeah, absolutely.

And you're you're showcasing it in business, you're showcasing it in your content. And like, but this past, like, I even saw, I think you wrote on your stories yesterday, like, you got complacent for part of the year. And then you really revved it up and like maybe can you talk about that journey and just like what was going on from an inner perspective and kind of how you made it through that evolution of maybe being more complacent in what you want. And now it seems like you're hitting every goal really fast. Yep.

I think so often people talk about complacency, like it's laziness, and I completely disagree. Even with me, last year, what was happening was not that I got lazy and it's not that I had settled. It was more that I wasn't yet sure what my next level was going to look like or how to get there. And so what I find really happens when I work with clients is when they get complacent. It is often that they feel the next level is going to be so uncomfortable or so scary or they don't know what to do with it. So they pull back.

And I was just in that place where, My new offer fietta, I launched this year, but I didn't know what I wanted it to be, and I knew my old offers. I had so completely outgrown and it just ended up being this stage where I was like, I don't know what's next. So I have to almost stop and figure it out, but I, I, I think it took too long in that stage, which is why I end up being complacency because I wasn't sure how that next level was going to look. So I think getting out of it just got really clear. And I've said this since the beginning. One of the first journal prompts I ever did with myself was just at the top of the page I wrote, wouldn't it be cool if dot dot. And I would just brain dump of like, if I had no inhibitions and I had no fears and I had nothing holding me back, what would I actually want?

And that's the process that I took myself through again. Where I started to finally figure out, this is what I actually am wanting, and this is what I want to do. And then I think it's really about giving yourself permission to chase that, giving yourself permission to get it wrong, to mess up in the process. And when you allow yourself to do that, and you stop fearing the next level and realize that it's something that you can handle, it's something you can break down bit by bit, that's when you start gaining that momentum, and I think that's what you're really seeing, is the momentum is gaining, and all the effort starts compounding, where then results start to take off, you hit goals quicker. And once you really stop fearing the failure.

You stop getting your own way and you realize the next level doesn't have to be the scary thing, the complacency really stops coming up. And I think you can start moving with a lot more traction than you're used to, really. Yeah, okay, that's so interesting. Complacency, you said complacency isn't about being lazy or not effort. It like having a lack of clarity and sitting in that lack of clarity rather than moving. And is that what I'm reading in the most part? That and I think it really comes down to, if you are afraid that the next level, is going to require a lot out of you. A lot of sacrifice, a lot of discomfort that you can't do it. It's almost like you'll settle in. Let's say you're at level 7 and you want to go to level eight. But if level 8 scares you so much, you'll keep playing level 7 until you can figure out how to get on board with the idea that you're ready for level 8.

And that's where I think the complacency comes in. So it's like, okay, once you can see yourself in action at that upgraded level, then that's when you move past the complacency. Yeah.

Yeah.

And I think you, I don't even know if you have to see yourself at that level. I think it certainly helps, but I also think if you can get on board with the fact that you'll be okay, that you have your own back, that you can handle what's next and more of, you, you know, just taking it one bite at a time, one chunk at a time, that's when you can start to move through it. It's almost putting your head down rather than looking at the whole mountain that you have to climb, it's just take that next step, next step, next step. And I think if you do that, suddenly you're moving towards the top. Right.

Yeah, like if you start looking at what the whole mountain is and like everything that you need to do, what systems are here, what's going on in here, and there's so many distractions in the entrepreneur journey, like, and that's what I feel like is actually part of this, this complacency model, and maybe you mirror that, that belief too, is like there's so many distractions and things that are not giving you what you want, and, and whether that's like consuming social media or being distracted by like, not getting the exact, response that you want and continuing going forward in what the process is. Yeah, no, I fully agree.

And I think the more, and that, that's why I'm big on confidence. That's why I'm big on discipline is I think the more you know yourself and the more that you're sure of yourself, certain in yourself, certain where you want to go. It becomes easier to get rid of a lot of those distractions because so many of those distractions come up from either a dysregulated state or they come up from a lack of self-trust. So it's easier to look at others. It's easier to look over there. It's easier to see what that person's doing than just believing you can actually create your own thing, which is why so many people end up distracted, feeling complacent or are going slower than they want. It's not because they can't do it. It's because they lack that self-trust.

They lack the confidence.

And the next levels are really scaring them. I love that.

I love that.

Yeah, know yourself. Know what you're doing. Have the faith in yourself.

And I feel like one of the things I really wanted to talk to you about is too, is this public declaration series that you've made. Yeah, and I am obsessed with it. I'm eating it all up and I feel like I'm seeing it more and more over the internet of people just like letting you in behind the scenes. I feel like, in past seasons of business, when there wasn't as much transparency, that that level of mystery of not declaring what your goals are, and even people are, you know, have this belief of evil eye, you know, you don't want to share what your beliefs are. But now we're in this age where I feel like transparency and showing instead of telling is so much more important. So tell us about the series that I'm talking about. I want to hear it from you and like, where, just tell us everything.

Tell us where what your goals are, how you're happy to. Yeah.

So I, I've done this in the past where I have, the whole premise of this, really, is that I have a belief that results generally show up within about 90 days. If you think about fitness, it's just the easiest example. If you really lock in for 3 months, you're not going to see it week one, week two. You might not even see it 8 weeks in, but around that 90 day mark is when you really start to see things progress. And so many people really struggle to hold it for that long. So what I've even seen with so many of my own audience members, is that once your motivation fades on a goal, and, you know, the the hype of it kind of starts to wear off because you're actually in it now, that's when uncertainty and doubt and fear, enter the chat. But in that time in that middle zone.

The results haven't come in yet. So you kind of just got to keep going through all that and wade through it. And I've seen all of that.

And so what I did was just want to show my audience of, hey, I would rather like eat off my left arm and I'm left-handed than be in the same place in 90 days. So I want to show you guys what it looks like to go through that middle. And so much of what the series has tried to teach the first time I did it, is that it's okay to fail. It's just not that big of a deal. It's not that deep.

Failure doesn't really mean anything, and I'm a big believer that failure is not the opposite of success. It's something that you're going to have to do on the way to success. So I was showing it and what the series you're talking about specifically is I just restarted it again. And it's pretty much for 90 days, I go after 4 really big goals. So my goals right now are, I want to add $20,000 to my monthly income. I am relaunching my podcast because I have not done it in ages, and it's just something where I will have to get really creative to do it and launch it. It is to, I think the third goal that I said publicly was add or get 200 members inside my community fiera. And then the 4th one is to more have my peak fitness train like an athlete, lean down a little bit.

And so it's basically an approach where across these 90 days, I have a whole system behind the scenes. I call it my self-made system that I use to make sure that I am hitting or surpassing really these 4 goals. And some, you know, sometimes it happens, you don't hit it. One of the goals that I didn't hit last time I did it was I wanted to save $50,000 across the 90 days. I think I ended at like 40.

But the idea is it's okay if you fail because I definitely would have saved more trying to go after 50,000 than just keep on keeping on how I was. So that's really the series, and the idea is that I will just show you behind the scenes of what I'm doing, how am I feeling, the good days, the bad days, and what it really looks like to go after 4 big goals at the same time and and do it without overwhelm, sabotage, burning out, or overthinking it. So that's really what it is.

And it's it's so fun, actually. It's so cool.

And I think it's such an interesting perspective. Like I said, I think we're going to see more of this like building in public, series of from creators in general, like, you know, 75 heart is such a good example of it. Like people are showing every day, their experiences of being in this challenge and people want to come around for the journey. It's like you're part of someone's story versus like, I mean, maybe this wasn't a thing of the past, but I certainly have noticed like a big shift and where people are just more transparent and, and forthcoming in what they're doing. And this idea of, you know, people are going to, if they're, if they're going to project, failure onto you, then, well, that's the cost. That's the cost of, of being able to show up, you know, this idea of people, you know, having different opinions about what you're doing.

It's like, it's no longer worth it to listen to that. And so let's just go ahead and bring you along on this evolution journey. So, like, you're, you're publicly declaring this forward. And, and what does it look like behind the scenes of, being able to show up to that, daily and being able to show up to like how you're making each of these goals happen. Setting systems? Are you being very strategic? Are you just taking the next step, like you said, like, and maybe like, where, where do you see yourself hitting different, roadblocks and how are you going to handle those? Yeah, so if I have to kind of break down, I think the most important things that I consider and that I even teach my clients, is that you have to look at the goals differently.

So the way that I really talk about it with my clients is that you're gonna have goals that really, really push you. And these are often the goals that you want to avoid and where your avoidance pops up the most. So it's ones that are going to require an increased capacity where you're going to have to push harder than you're used to in order to actually hit these goals. Otherwise you won't hit the goals. So we talk about push goals.

We also talk about creative goals. These are goals, which you just have to think out of the box on how you're going to hit them. You can't just do what you've been doing. You might have to find opportunities. You might have to put yourself out there more. You might have to get a little resourceful with how you hit it. And then there's steady goals. So these are goals that it's going to take you pretty much showing up all day, all 90 days in order to do it. So for example, my, fitness goal. That going to be a steady goal. My add $20,000 to my monthly income, that's going to be a push goal. My creative goal in the past was the savings goal that I mentioned and now it's more of the podcast. So it's thinking about your goals differently. And throughout the 90 days, I basically teach of like, this is when you're, how you're going to approach each goal and when you're going to do it.

I think another thing that's really important behind the scenes of how you actually go about it is, There is structure that you have to have in your day. So the thing, for me, is I'm super tight. I think I present type A, but I'm super type B, and I've always resisted structure. I don't really want to be like tied down. Yeah, I'm like, I just don't like it. But I've learned that I do have to structure myself a little bit in order to succeed. So, a lot of it is also just making sure that you know what actually needs to get done and insane on top of yourself. I have ADHD like it's I get it's harder. But if you can find a structure that actually works for you so that you can be hitting these goals, going after your marks, I think that's huge. And so what I really have people do is start to add structure and get organized.

But then I have, it's not really my concept, but in basketball, and my boyfriend played professionally, so I feel like all my analogies are basketball, but in basketball, there's this concept called next play. And it's kind of the idea of, As soon as the play is down, you're onto the next one, you really can't be focusing on what happened and the prior plays in the game, and you can't worry about what's going to happen a couple plays down, you just have to be in this one. And so I'm constantly on.

Let me just do my best on this one play that I'm making. And then I can worry about the other plays later, right? I'll just even think about it at the gym. I'm just going to do my best on this set. I'm not worried about the next, the next set or what's coming in the workout. I'm just gonna do my best on this rep, and then the next rep, and then the next rep. And then you end up having a killer workout. So it's that kind of idea of taking that mentality to kind of how you go throughout your day. I think the third thing that I would say is most important in the 90 days is that people, just generally, are so passive. We're so afraid to look at who we actually are being every single day because it requires confrontation. It would require taking more responsibility, and it would require not really making drama around the results.

So what I have my girls do is basically a very specific kind of audit. Every single day to look at what they're doing in these 90 days. And what I tell them is that when you actually audit yourself every day and it takes like 5 minutes, it's not anything crazy. One of 2 things are gonna happen. Number one, you're going to see what you're doing each day and you're actually going to feel really good because you're following through and you're going to start building momentum because when you actually know what you're accomplishing and what's happening, it starts to snowball. And so people, I actually shared all my stories yesterday. Someone had mentioned 4 days and she's like, I feel like I did more today than I usually do in weeks and it's because she's auditing.

She's now aware of what she's doing and when you know that you're doing well, And you've audited it, you want to do it again tomorrow. And then again the next day.

So the first thing that happens is you build momentum. The second thing that happens when you audit every day is you're going to see your patterns. There's no way to run from them. You're going to see, okay, a couple days in a row. I've had this problem where I'm actually not that focused. And so then it's a decision of what am I going to do about it? And even seeing your pattern, whether you get momentum or you have a pattern, it's a blessing. Like, it's something good is happening. Because if you're not auditing, you don't even know. You don't really know you're building momentum and you usually don't build momentum is strong, or you have patterns and you just didn't know they were there. So those are really kind of the structural things that I make sure I'm focusing on behind the scenes so that real momentum is built.

I'm able to make really fast progress and and we can actually go somewhere in these 90 days versus just playing out another 90 days in the year. Oh my gosh, I'm obsessed, a daily audit. That's that's so good.

And, I mean, yeah, this is like the same thing of, of having a feedback loop and, It's so helpful to know the truth of how you're operating. And I think people look at the truth as being this dark thing, you know, like being honest with yourself that you showed up with like 4 out of 10 energy today. And, and like, you know, maybe you had depression and some people like look at these honest truths as, this is dark and, but this is actually how you grow. And, and I think that's like the core of, like what we have in common is like, it takes truth to be honest with yourself and see how you're operating and be able to move forward. Yeah.

And I think the thing too is like so many peop- and I was definitely one of these people, but I think it's so hard to actually be honest because so many people operate from shame and they have shame when they audit themselves and they have shame at how they actually spent their time or the choices that they made. So it's easier to not look.

But the truth is, is that when you start to build self-respect and confidence, shame, it's not that it goes away, it's that the flavor changes. So rather than you having shame and turning on yourself, you notice, oh, okay, I really am not pleased with how that went. Probably because I was out of integrity with myself. I didn't show up and I wasn't loyal to who I wanted to be. So I'm going to change that tomorrow. And so it's very different flavors where one actually produces a bigger and bigger and bigger avoidance pattern. When you're operating from shame and more of that self-criticism, whereas the other one is actually just a very honest, self-respecting route where you can grow. And so that's, I think, the really big difference of people who avoid auditing all costs and in those who do it and realize that, Oh my god, I can do so much with myself if I just keep at this.

Yeah, and like the thing is that I'm recognizing throughout this whole conversation is that all of this is extremely simple. It's not like it's not like we're talking quantum physics. Like all these, all these deep spiritual processes, like, you know, manifested, manifesting at quantum leaps and like explaining quantum physics and jumping timelines, they're fun and amazing. And I highly value these things, but the thing that actually threads the needle forward is being honest with yourself on a day-to-day basis and looking at how you're structuring yourself and having like you said, a self-made sprint, like these these moments, It's not that I'm discounting all of these manifestation things because I purely, I keep, obviously do believe in them, but they don't hold as much weight as actually moving and taking action.

And being honest with yourself on a day-to-day basis. And I think that's what's so cool is these really simple things. Like even you can equate it in fitness too. It's like, you don't need a lot to be super fit. You can go to the gym 3 times a week and have abs, like, really, you can. And, it's it's the same with business. It's an, it's the same with leading yourself forward is like these really, just, yeah, simple daily practices that bring you forward. Yeah, and I, I think what it is, is, is, it's actually funny when I taught the whole system to my clients on these 90 days, I was expecting so many questions and I, I'd save time for so many questions and we got to the end and I was like, you guys don't have really any questions. Like, no, this is so straightforward. Makes so much sense.

I'm like, oh, okay, great.

So there's that.

It really is simple.

It doesn't mean it's easy, though. But I think the thing the thing that I would even say towards the manifestational of that is, yes, it's very real, but you still have to show up and do the work. And I think something that I've just been talking to my girls about this is, let's say you have 250 opportunities in a day to act more like who you want to be and make just, choices like her and and all of that. Most people go throughout their day actually making none of them. Like maybe three, right?

You might, you might choose to think something different today. You might choose to go to the gym. But the truth is, is that if you want to grow really fast and how I grew really fast, now, and even when I started my journey, I went from one of the most insecure people I've ever met, to, to where I'm at now, helping people around the world, you know, build confidence, is because rather than even choosing like 10 a day, I was doing like 100 to 150 different choices a day. And and they're not crazy.

They're not big.

It's just the decision of, Oh my god, I just thought something that was more of that shame. Let me just shift that right now or it's, you know, I said I wanted to become someone who wakes up early. It doesn't mean I have to like jump up out of bed and be ready. It just means I'm starting to move and wake up 15 minutes earlier at a time. It's choosing to, let's say, after this call, like, okay, I need to actually go and work for another hour. Let me just put my phone in the other room so I know it's easier for myself. It's just those little, little things. And if you do that a lot of times, you get results really, really fast. And I think manifestation, it's not that different. It's thinking differently in getting your brain on that frequency.

And what I'm saying is also getting your brain on that frequency, but also making sure your behavior is a line up with that too. And that's when I think you can start to see things come through so fast, but it just, again, you have to commit to. I'm going to be conscious enough of who I am today and who I want to be and the gap in that and then starting to close it in those micro decisions. Obsessed.

I love it all.

We're totally on the same page with that and I can see it clearly working in everything that you're doing. And one of the things, the last question that I want to talk to you about before I ask you, like, what you see forward is, talk to us about your social media growth, because you've gone from, like, the last, I think, like a year ago, you must have been at, like, 2000 or something. And now you're almost at 60K, which is like a huge growth. So how are you approaching it? Like, do you have secrets that you can share? Do you have anything that, like, besides obviously following what we've just spoken about, what is different about this? Because this is a very tangible growth. So what, to give context to everyone? Yes, I started my business.

I monetize very quickly with a very small audience. I made multiple 6 figures my first year with a little over a 1000 followers. And then in the next, I think it was like, it must have been 3.5 years, I guess. I had landed to 3000 followers because it was never focused for me. Was always making money. But at some point, I kind of woke up and I was like, I'm ready to own that I don't just want to do this. It was that same outgrowing phase that I talked about with my offer. Where I was kind of like, I've really just outgrown it, and I now feel like the way I kept describing it to myself was, I feel like I think I must have been 20, I guess 27 or 28 at the time. It's like, I feel like a 28 year old who's still showing up as like my 25 year old self and it's not working for me anymore.

And so, I finally committed, I wanted to become more of a personal brand while still maintaining the business that I have and evolving it. And yes, that's when I went from basically 3000 followers to almost now across platforms, I would say it's probably closer to, a little shy of 60, yes. And I think what that really took was, I had to let down, I'll give you more mental things and I'll give you more tangible things. I had to let down a lot of barriers and I had to stop trying to be palatable. Because the truth is, is that I, I'm a little more tough love. I'm a little more like direct around things and I wasn't bringing that forward. And I think what you even spoke about earlier is that so many people used to put on the front of perfectionism and I'm only going to show you once I win.

And that actually was just a part of the creator economy. Back then, closer to 2020, 2022. But somewhere around 2023.

That really started shifting with the rise of TikTok and Instagram got reels and so there's more strategic reasons why. But now it's so much more beneficial in today's greater economy to show yourself building to show yourself in progress, the vulnerabilities. So, I really had to get used to the shift of like, I'm I can't really control how I'm perceived. And so all I can do is be myself. That's the only thing I can do is just be honest and show more of myself, and I think that alone, did really well. And the thing that first started to get me growing was, Oddly enough, I shared on the internet 5 signs that you're a quitter. And that worked really well, but I think one of the reasons it worked so well is that in the past, I would have been afraid to say that.

I would have been afraid people were going to get mad at me and I'm going to get yelled at and I'm going to get so much hate. But the truth is, I got a lot of love and people were like, thank you for saying that. And it was just me being myself. So I think that's an aspect of it. But I think, Also, People, a lot of people think content is easy and it's not rocket science, right? It is easy in that way, but the truth is that it takes more effort than people require. And so I think a lot of it is that I spent a lot of time studying content. I spent a lot of time trying to analyze, why does this work? For some people.

What is what's so good about this real? What's going on that's actually happening here? And how can I start to up my skill of content creation up my skill of of editing? So that I can actually start getting more reach? Because the truth is, is that you're going to make more money if you have more reach. You're going to do better if you have more reach. And so I've always been good at the part of speaking to my people, but now it's how do I package that up, the way I know my people, in a way that is going to be more favorable to the out brother. So that's something that I do think you have to watch out for. I also think it just takes being a lot more neutral. Like you have to approach it very neutrally. It's okay if things flop.

It's okay if it doesn't do well. It's just looking at the data and not taking it so personally, but content is innately, a skill that people almost like project their worth onto. They project their likability, right? Because it's like ability.

It's almost, it touches on our popularity fears. And, you know, back to back to high school. It touches on the, do people want to hear from me? Am I interesting?

In a way that a skill like typing on a keyboard doesn't. But at the end of the day, if you can look at it more neutrally, like it literally is a skill. It's not, I really don't appreciate when people say it's like a lottery or like, oh, it's just like a lottery with algorithm. I like, no, it's not. Studying it. And if you can study it and start to understand it. And you can understand what actually makes good content, how your energy plays into that. And you do it every day like it's your job, you will grow. You will grow.

So I think that's been a big thing. And I would say just with my own growth. Once something starts to work even a little, I double down on it. And I think that's what a lot of people don't do is they just keep, they don't look at the data. And they don't double down on it, right? So to give you almost like a more tangible example is I was making reels that were 60 to 90 seconds and so informational heavy for a long time and it was great value, but we looked at the numbers and it was like, oh. Our view time is is dropping off around like 15 seconds. So they're really not staying that much longer than that because they have short attention spans. We all do when it comes to social media. And so we decided, okay, what if we start making reels that are 15 seconds?

So rather than 90 seconds of value, how can we get 90 seconds of value into 15 seconds? And once we started playing with that, it shot up even more, right? Because we're just following the data. Or I had another example is I had one reel where I just randomly did a reel where it was like, what if you treated May like a one month experiment? I thought it might do well.

And it really did well.

And so then we did it again in June and July, in August, all the way through the end of the year. And I probably got across those 6 videos. I don't easily, probably a million views just from that. I don't know how many follows. So it's like, you have to double down. You have to study what works, just the same way that you might study something, right? Like study a topic or try and do better at work. It's really not that different, but I think very few people try and study content and apply. So I think it's really being a student and being willing to be a really big beginner at it as well. That's so well said.

And like, thinking about your content, now I'm like imagining that a skill that you have now too is like, your your signature hook of like, I would eat off my left arm. Like, that probably was bread from, the skill of recognizing that pattern disruption and these crazy declarations in the beginning. Catch your attention. So it's, it's, let me say this too, that I'm so glad you brought this up because people always say, especially that one, they're like, that's such a good hook that you came up with. And I'm like, no, that's just what I say all the time because I'm left-handed, so I always, I, I probably say at least two, 3 times a month where I'm like, I'd rather eat off my left arm than go do that. Right?

So it's just something that I say, but it's interesting because yes, you can study hooks and see that. Wow. That's something that does well. But also that's where I'm like, you have to just be yourself. You have to bring it in.

And it's funny because that, My series has been, copied a lot. And I want to say to anyone listening. Copying's not bad if you make it your own. It's like totally fine.

So if someone copies my content. If they're copying word for word, yeah, sure, it's not going to work and it's not great, but it's more around like taking a concept that clearly is is doing well with the algorithm and repeating it. So I've seen so many people do that and it's funny, my team will send it to me when people do. But people will be like, I'd rather eat broken glass. I'd rather do this than do this, right? And it's just interesting to see that, yes, it can be something that other people are seeing, wow, this seems to be algorithmically favorable for this girl. Let me say I'm going to eat broken glass, but I do think there still has to be the element of like, you have to be yourself. So for me, it would just be myself and it worked.

So that's where it's like, do what, study what works but still make it your own. That's what you have to do.

Right, exactly.

Like you have to have the skill of studying others, but don't make that your own. And that really is the art.

That's like where your true skill comes in is can you actually transfer it into something that you want to do. Exactly.

Okay, I'm obsessed and let's just finish out this conversation of what are you building forward? Like, what are you looking for? What do you see for 2026 as your vision, anything that you want to share? That's moving.

Ah, this is the question I was nervous about. Sure as much or as little as you want. No, I know.

I feel like I, what I really want to do is continue building out my community fietta. So this is for people who they really want to build confidence and discipline. They want to build up themselves, but it's also, I'm noticing more and more. It's people who want to build something in their lives, whether that be a really standout career, a great body, a disciplined mind, a brand of business. And so I really want to continue building that out. And we have people from all across the world in there, and I just love that someone. I just got a message the other day. That someone from India messages someone from Canada, every single day and they talk and they're building each other up. So, like those kinds of friendships. I want to keep building that.

In my, Life, I'm actually, I'll just say it here. I don't know when your podcast is coming out, but hopefully, hopefully around the time I announce this, but I am like 90% sure that I am moving to Japan for 3 months this year. So I know I'm really excited. So, For me, what that really is going to take is I not only want to really work on just being so much more present in life and enjoying and experiencing, but also making sure that my work ethic is so on key and on point so that I can do really well in the business while still doing really well and enjoying my time in Japan. So there's things like that.

And I think just generally something that I'm looking towards and seeing, what do I want to build next is, do I want to either start another business? Like a small side project?

Do I want to start doing maybe more in-person events, things like that, but I'm starting to get to that point now where I'm using, I think, the first half this year to really solidify my foundations, so that I have everything I need really locked in, so that I then have more time and space to either enjoy life, start another business, keep building the brand out, and and kind of go and go from there and see where it takes me. But I don't, I personally am someone where I'm like, I don't look that far in advance. I know the thing, like big things that I want, but I've just learned that when you apply a lot of, honestly, what we talked about today, you grow really fast and what you think you want changes really fast. And so I really just try and think of like, what do I, what do I need to do the next 6 months to get myself the next 6 months where I want to be?

And then we're going to see and take the new direction from there. So that's really, what I think is what I think is coming for the next couple months. I'm obsessed and I'm on the same page. I think the first personal development book I read was Tim Ferris and he talks about like, don't look more than 6 months because everything can change and you never know what's going on and Oh my gosh, I'm so excited. For Japan for you. That's gonna be so fun.

I'm really excited.

Well, thank you for coming on. Thank you for sharing all your secrets and I'm so excited for what you're building and if you guys want to check out Mackenzie, I'll drop a link to all of her links below. She's super amazing.

I highly recommend at least following her on Instagram. And yeah, thank you for coming. Thank you for having me.

I loved it and to anyone listening. Come say hi on Instagram.

I love to chat with you guys. And yeah, this was so much fun. I loved it.

Yay.